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Coping with Stress

Practical, everyday ways to handle pressure from school, family and friends without burning out.

By AMS Editorial Team · · 5 min read

Stress is the body's response to pressure. A little can help you focus. Too much, for too long, can leave you tired, tense, forgetful or short-tempered. The good news is that stress responds well to small, regular habits.

Notice the signs early

  • Headaches, stomach aches or a racing heart
  • Trouble sleeping or sleeping too much
  • Feeling irritable, tearful or numb
  • Avoiding schoolwork or friends
  • Constant worry about what could go wrong

Try these tools

  • Slow breathing: breathe in for four counts, hold for two, out for six. Repeat five times.
  • Name it: say to yourself, "I am feeling stressed because..." Naming a feeling reduces its power.
  • Break it down: write the big task as small steps and do the first one.
  • Move: even ten minutes of walking changes how your body feels.
  • Limit comparison: other people's highlights are not their whole story.
  • Protect sleep: a consistent bedtime does more for stress than another late-night study hour.

Know what you can control

Draw two columns: things I can influence and things I cannot. Put your energy into the first column, and practise letting the second one go.

Share the load

Stress feels heavier when you carry it alone. Talk to a parent, guardian, teacher, counsellor or friend you trust. If stress has become constant or is affecting your health, ask a trusted adult to help you find professional support.

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